SO... everyone I have something interesting to share with you. Its about Deception. To further express this thought I decided to look up the military term for the word.
DECEPTION: Those measures designed to mislead the enemy by manipulation, distortion, or falsification of evidence to induce the enemy to react in a manner prejudicial to the enemy's interests.
This description of the word is more stronger to me than the typical definition of the word. When you deceive or try to deceive someone you are basically viewing them as the enemy. They are just subjects, casualties. They may be the subject or just another puzzle piece in the deception. Deceiving someone is done by lies and trying to manipulate the subject to believing that whatever you may be saying is true. Because of this feisty word I find myself often in a position of lack of trust of many individuals.
Its often said to trust no one but yourself. Its true. Don't trust ANYONE. Anyone and everyone has great potential to be your enemy. Humans are selfish creatures although many may try to argue or debate my theory, they still do things for their own benefit or satisfaction. They will deceive, manipulate and concoct a world that you may believe in. Furthermore, anything where you must hide the truth is wrong. How to know your deceived is hard to decipher because it depends on the person. some people are extremely gullible others are just really good at telling lies. Here is a list of the things to watch for to know if you might possibly be being deceived:
1) sketchy references about their past, experiences or specific events
2) They lie about basic information eg: age, sex, name, place of birth etc..
if someone lies about something as simple as this I can guarantee there are a bucket load of lies that follow. If you may be seeing someone who lies or has lied to you about their name? or even sex? run for the hills and keep running! lol he may be a she and Johnny may be a Jennifer. I'm just saying anything now a days is possible.
3) Lie about there whereabouts and you verify that its a lie
4) You never see their family
someone is forever out of town or your schedules never seem to match up
5)They leave the room for most conversations even if you aren't at an intimate dinner
6)You ask them questions and the story always changes
7) They pride themselves for being great cons and well straight up great deceivers
there are a lot of other indicator but you just always have to be 5 steps ahead of these people. SEE THE TRUE BUZZ TAB AT TOP OF PAGE TO READ A TRUE STORY THAT INSPIRED THIS POST...DEFINITELY I MUST READ!
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hear your stories :) or you could privately email me at sospecialkay@gmail.com
Never be a victim...know the signs. Don't TRUST ANYONE and maybe not everyone is untrustworthy but its always hard to depict the friends from the phonies especially when you mix the two...
-Bonita
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