Born 2 Dance!

BORN 2 DANCE

so what are we on...the 3rd episode or so now? I been keeping up with it and I thought it was gonna be a remake of the played out "who wants to be the next pussycat dolls/ girlicious" thype show. However it's nothing of the sort. Its still dancing in skimpy outfits but it seems that Lauriean (the main choreographer/ video diva actor extrordinaire) is not a Robin Anton copy. I love her spirit and love for dance. She is gives the girls hard criticism mixed with positive reinforcement. She doesn't just say: you suck! She uses more of a coaching method than a Simon Powell method. Overall so far this show is great entertainment to watch and is yet another knot on the string of reality performance type shows to grace tv land. My top fav girls is the chubby cute one who was previewed with the broken necklace (cant seem to remember her name at the moment) and a couple others. My least favourite girl is the ghetto looking one with the bright red little mermaid mop top thing on her head. what's up with that? I'm sure you were thinking it too. lol. Through several other male opinions she looks manly. I quote: "whoooah is that a man or woman?" me: " lol thats right there is a woman....ye" Male: " ohhh from the side she looks like a man. But thats bad. All i know is a woman is supposed to look like a woman not jus from one side but AAALLL angles" LOL i had a good laugh at that comment. Well im not a hater...we'll just wait and see how far she goes.

 Love the boots by the way HOT HOT HOT FIRE FIRE FIRE!

Nicki Minaj a trois?

So For those of you who are outta tha loop...Nicki is in Toronto!!! To be truthful I'm not her biggest fan but I can tell you that I do listen to some of her music. Often not by choice but its everywhere! She has been blowing up the sound waves with her "SUPER BASS" and all her latest tunes. Her song "MOMENT FOR LIFE" has been on repeat on peoples ipods and blackberries everywhere. Just the other day I seen the video play 3times in one sitting on much music. What can I say she has star quality nipples exposed or not. lol All she needs is a sex tape a couple of DUI's and she's at the top with the rest of Hollywood's most knowns. Maybe I'm behind again and she already has one...hmnn I'll google that later lol you know y'all like to google things too. Anyways I'll be attending LUXY's nightclub in Vaughn Ontario where shes hosting at 10:30pm. Gotta be there! Haven't been out in awhile but I have been looking forward to this. I bought my outfit, did my hair, bought my shoes, accessories the full nine. I gotta keep up with all the Nicki wannabees that I'm sure will be there. I'm sorry I will not be wearing pink extensions or see-thru dress but its more or a Beyonce number. Those who know me should already know what it is. Despite all the happiness and excitement going around tonight's affair I'm disappointed. One thing I hate is people who I depend on and they fall short. I realized today that although I think of people a certain way the feelings not always mutual. Tonight for me will not just be a fun outing or something to do tonight. Tonight will be my big celebration for getting accepted to college which may seem small to some but HUGE to me. Tonight will kick off my new mind state, my new sparkly shiny future. Tonight will be a huge relief from all the drama and stress I been dealing with. So even though all my important friends ans support systems aren't gonna be there to party it up with me I'll still try to have a great time. Besides I've already spent over $100, got my MAC makeup done and liquor. Hey and maybe I wouldn't mind seeing a celebrity. I'm gonna post pics and a walk thru of my outfit for you guys and lemme know what y'all think. I put down 6  for the guest list tonight and sadly its down to 3. Me my home-girl and my ego. Like Beyonce says I got a big ego, BIG enough to take up 4 other spaces :) well gotta get all dolled up! XOXO

-Bonita

GREAT NEWS!!!

Its remarkable how with just one word, one phrase, one phonecall everything changes. I got the best phonecall I've ever recieved yesterday. It was the happiest...well one of the most happiest moments of my life. One of my top colleges that I had applied for called me back :) I was happier than happy. The lady spoke to me in the accustomary tone: "i'm calling to notify you that your application has been accepted and there is now space available in your program...you will receive a letter next week in the mail...you will start classes in 3weeks time." I nearly had a heart attack. First at the thought that I'd actually be starting school so soon and secondly that they actually called me back with such good news. Im telling you. It was all in God's plan for me. Im now trying to get myself ahead...further in life. I can now achieve the goals that I had once set for myself. The future is just glowing bright. Only problem now is getting financial aid to come through in time to start classes. What the hell am I gonna do??! Im trying to refrain from panicking beacause I can do this. I was stressing before and everything worked itself out in due time. Im so thankful. This is a testament to what I been going through. The ups and downs and failures. Nows time for nothing less than success. All who stood against me are not going to stop me they arent going to ever! They will not stop me they are just speed bumbs in my way trying to slow me down. So from now Im armouring up for the fight ahead. I know its going to be. I HATE changes. I know hate may be a strong word but its truely how I feel. I love things to be consistent and stay comfortable and happy. Anything that could mean complications, drama, or even a detour from my routine im not having it! lol Just thought I'd share my happy news with the world. Im soooooo excited! I'll keep y'all updated. College life here I come!

How To Know Deception

Woke up with thoughts heavy on my mind and felt that need to write.
SO... everyone I have something interesting to share with you. Its about Deception. To further express this thought I decided to look up the military term for the word.

DECEPTION: Those measures designed to mislead the enemy by manipulation, distortion, or falsification of evidence to induce the enemy to react in a manner prejudicial to the enemy's interests.

This description of the word is more stronger to me than the typical definition of the word. When you deceive or try to deceive someone you are basically viewing them as the enemy. They are just subjects, casualties. They may be  the subject or just another puzzle piece in the deception. Deceiving someone is done by lies and trying to manipulate the subject to believing that whatever you may be saying is true. Because of this feisty word I find myself often in a position of lack of trust of many individuals.

Its often said to trust no one but yourself. Its true. Don't trust ANYONE. Anyone and everyone has great potential to be your enemy. Humans are selfish creatures although many may try to argue or debate my theory, they still do things for their own benefit or satisfaction. They will deceive, manipulate and concoct a world that you may believe in. Furthermore, anything where you must hide the truth is wrong. How to know your deceived is hard to decipher because it depends on the person. some people are extremely gullible others are just really good at telling lies. Here is a list of the things to watch for to know if you might possibly be being deceived:

1) sketchy references about their past, experiences or specific events
2) They lie about basic information eg: age, sex, name, place of birth etc..
 if someone lies about something as simple as this I can guarantee there are a bucket load of lies that follow. If you may be seeing someone who lies or has lied to you about their name? or even sex? run for the hills and keep running! lol he may be a she and Johnny may be a Jennifer. I'm just saying anything now a days is possible.
3) Lie about there whereabouts and you verify that its a lie
4) You never see their family
someone is forever out of town or your schedules never seem to match up
5)They leave the room for most conversations even if you aren't at an intimate dinner
6)You ask them questions and the story always changes
7) They pride themselves for being great cons and well straight up great deceivers

there are a lot of other indicator but you just always have to be 5 steps ahead of these people. SEE THE TRUE BUZZ TAB AT TOP OF PAGE TO READ A TRUE STORY THAT INSPIRED THIS POST...DEFINITELY I MUST READ!

 

Feel free to post ur stories in the comment section I'd be interested to e

hear your stories :) or you could privately email me at sospecialkay@gmail.com

Never be a victim...know the signs. Don't TRUST ANYONE and maybe not everyone is untrustworthy but its always hard to depict the friends from the phonies especially when you mix the two...

 

-Bonita

My Horoscope for Aug 5th 2011

Today was just a strange day. Kinda hard to explain. I'm feeling kinda confident and at peace with myself today, not sure where this came from. OMG no word of a lie ladies and gents i just decided to go look up my horoscope online and this is what it says:

Your energy level and your self-confidence are high now. You are full of enterprise and may chaff at the bit if you can not do enough, if your present position doesn't give you enough scope, or if your superiors do not allow you to take initiative and advance as you want to.         

Wellness:		85%
Intellect:		51%
Love:		27%
Emotions:		45%
Intuition:		64%
Creativity:		24%
Work:		28%
Money:		60%

So based on this nifty little chart they have on this site it says my intuition is quite high hmn...I have been feeling rather intuitive lately. It has to have some measure of truth to it because work is only 28% lol and love is really low as well. Truthfully I lack employment right now and my love life? Well...I guess the numbers speak for themselves right?Money isnt where I'd like it to be but its higher than 50% and it is a steady number. My wellness is super high which is great. Now I'm thinkng to myself where do they get theses percentages from? Based on what conclusions? What study? hmn. interesting. I'm going to humour myself and post another from another site to see if there are any similarities.
http://www.dailyhoroscopes.net/taurus.html

Another site says this:   It's not often when those of your sign aren't feeling confident. That alone might mean you'd be tough to get along with, but you're also far too genuine and approachable to hang that or any other natural gift over anyone's head. When someone does need to take charge, you won't be shy about stepping up. If it's to defend someone or something who can't do it for themselves, you can be positively formidable. Good luck to anyone who gives you a reason to take charge now

 http://www.self.ca/horoscopes/daily/taurus



So Basically to summarize the whole thing...the next few days should be filled with confidence. Overall through reading these predictions I agree with them. I am very much a take charge type of person. I truely hate to see things fall apart. I'll Jump in ready to assist in any way I can in any situation. If you are into this type of thing you could check out the sites I go to. Keep in mind that majority of the time these things are fictional so don't go psycho thinking that by next week ur gonna die or lose your job just because some cat-lady sitting on the toilet seat came up with ur faulty predictions. Live your life to the fullest and enjoy it. Don't let silly predictions or furtune cookie crap determine your fate. Your destiny is in your own hands. If your horoscope says today you will have a bad day it's ultimately up to you how you perceive yiur day and the outcome. So all my fellow Taureans go ahead grab life by the horns!

-Bonita


 

Beehive/ Fashion

Beehive aka the fashion central:
NAIL ART FRENZY

The latest in whatever is trending. Nails Nails Naillllls!!!!!!!!! They are upgrading like VCR to blueray player, from cassette to Mp3, from  from 2d to 3d. Yes I'm still talking about nail art. We are now in a time where you can even get your nails done in 3d. The latest trends range from pointed nails, nail jewelery, bright contrasting colours, to edgy prints and patterns. Not all of these styles I would consider putting on myself but they are cool to look at.

Hello Kitty Nails? And is that an actual gumball machine on the nails? Totally adorable though.

The deamon nails...could take an eye out with those. Catfight anyone??

I call these pointy deamon nails. Vey Gaga. Loving the abstravt designs in combination with those bright summery colours. You would definately be getting quite a few double looks with these on.

Pretty with the usual square shaped acrylics. I'd definately consider getting these. Imagine these with a really nice gaudy ring? Absolutely gorge!

Craaaaazy design. Im thinkin this took hours to do. I see a little 3D art on the tips as well.

Nails can be political too. "Yes We Can!" Obama baby!

A little bit much dont you think?

Comment, let me know what you guys think.

The Ideal Man

To all the single ladies or just women in a transitional phase between men. I know one cant help but wonder does this creature even exist? To me he seems more fictional than real. It's not about finding the perfect, flawless man but rather the man that has the fewest flaws and imperfections that either flatter him or you can manage to overlook.

Here are a few words that express this theme.

The Perfect Man

by Kris

The perfect man loves you for you and not just one tiny part. The perfect man would sacrifice everything for you. The perfect man isn't afraid to tell you the truth. The perfect man is kind, sweet, funny, and loving. The perfect man can make you crumble with one glance. The perfect man can make you feel unlike you've ever felt before. The perfect man knows he's perfect, but won't ever admit it. The perfect man has a smile that lights up a room. The perfect man will admit when he's wrong. The perfect man won't admit when he's right. The perfect man would never say anything that makes you feel like less of a person. The perfect man has his beliefs, but would never force them on you. The perfect man won't force you to tell him everything, but he's always there if you want to. The perfect man will sit with you when you don't feel like dancing. The perfect man will know when to take your hand. The perfect man will know when he loves you but won't tell you until he's sure he means it. The perfect man will make you want to be a better person. The perfect man does not exist. In all the above there is a little humour and a little truth. Men are so human and so flawed. At times it appears that they only exist in fairytales and romantic comedies.